Sex File: I can't stop thinking about his beautiful ex-wife

"I can understand why you might be fascinated by your partner's beautiful ex-wife. People's past lives and relationships are always interesting. However, torturing yourself with thoughts of their love life is masochistic."

Mon, 20 Jan, 2025 - 02:00

Suzi Godson

I'm in a new relationship with an old colleague who I reconnected with after we both found ourselves divorced last year. The sex is good, but his ex-wife was a very beautiful woman, and I have found myself fixated on thoughts of whether their sex life was better than ours. How do I stop my insecurity coming between us?

I can understand why you might be fascinated by your partner's beautiful ex-wife. People's past lives and relationships are always interesting. However, torturing yourself with thoughts of their love life is masochistic.

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