Sex File: I miss the lovemaking we used to have
I love my wife's body but she is self-conscious about certain positions that we always used to enjoy
Right now the best thing that you can do is to be supportive. That means prioritising her feelings and not making undue demands on her to have sex in positions that make her feel awkward or uncomfortable. It's not difficult. Stick to positions where the emphasis is on intimacy and connection. The missionary position is the most popular sexual position for a reason. It's comfortable and close and because you are focused on each other's eyes rather than each other's bodies, it will help your wife to feel less self-conscious.

